Stop spending your days stressed out and over-thinking it.
When you stop giving such a fuck, start having fun, living the life you want, being a little selfish, doing the shit you love to do…become irre-fucking-sistible to the rest of the world.
Another station employee calls her daughter, who's in class at middle school, and asks Mac to say hi. At the LA compound where he built a cavernous studio and filmed the MTV show, Miller has surrounded himself with hardworking artists like Earl, Flying Lotus, Vince Staple and Ab-Soul, playing host while soliciting input and absorbing techniques. I didn’t think that any of that side of things was going to cover this album, because I figured they already didn’t like me. Or they’re like, Sure, he’s getting better, but he’s no MF Doom. For the past year and a half, when I do “Knock, Knock,” it’s fun, but when I say the lyrics, I don’t feel anything. They’re going to play with me and Syd’s going to sing with me, and it’s going to be a cool vibe. Having been with one person for so long, do you think you know more or less about love than most kids your age? But I always believed I was gonna be able to make it happen. My financial situation is very adult, but I have an awesome team.
Here is my super simple, life-changing genius for you.
Stop beating yourself up over your checklists, scale, job, etc. Where you are right now is what you were hoping to be at one point. Super Bonus: You will also find that when you start living like this, you have more time, energy and awesomeness to give back to others and you will change the world.
It is just not going to happen with you being weirdly obsessed with stupid stuff that doesn’t matter and then berating yourself for it. Go volunteer somewhere where people are struggling to eat or live. Yeah, that screams date me, I am awesome in relationships. Besides remaining reasonably clean and respectful to others, there are not a lot of things you really “should” or “have to” do.
Ever hear the saying, “” Here is what that ACTUALLY means. Not unhappy, secretly hates who they are and questions their whole existence people.
” Your profile would read: “I work for the weekends and like to make the most of every day.
Just looking for someone to have a good time and a bit of laugh with.
My only requirement is that you know how to make a decent bacon sandwich.” Your profile would read: “What do you get when you cross a vampire and a snowman? Now that I’ve got your attention it wouldn’t hurt to drop me a message and say hello.
You are going to need to ask for help over and over in your relationship. Anyone healthy I know would rather date someone who knows how to ask for help and fix their shit, than someone who sits there wallowing in their unhappiness.
If you are holding on to something from your past that is in the way of you creating a great relationship, fix it. That is why there are kick-ass therapists and life coaches. If you are embarrassed about asking for help, then check yourself.